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Conversations with Superpowers

I entered a competition, not too long ago, which asked one simple question: if you could have one superpower what would it be. Surprisingly, so many answers said they wanted the power of invisibility. Others asked to be able to read people’s minds. Many asked for the power to fly. My answer was raw and instinctive: I wanted the power to alleviate all sickness in the world. Turns out I won the competition.

Superpowers can be a tricky thing for we almost always associate them with superheros. Then it can become impossible to decide which persona you would prefer. While it can be nice to live in the fantasy of being Wonder Woman or Cat Woman, I wonder in our reality what superpowers do we already have and which ones do we crave for most.


Resilience: the human story is not one without pain, without difficulty or struggle. To overcome those times of struggle, while we may have had to show strength, we almost certainly have had to show resilience. Whether we had to find our way through a troubled youth, or manage an uncertain and difficult relationship, resilience is something we often overlook as being our sword in times of trouble. To be here today we have had to show some resilience in the face of our adversity, the power to pull it all together and just keep pushing through.


Patience: not one story of parenthood can be told without patience. The sheer exhaustion and sleep deprivation of those early moments can drive many to breaking point. Yet, patience gets us through. Patience holds the hand of those working hard to achieve a dream, studying late into the night, toiling long hours in their job or climbing that metaphoric mountain to seek enlightenment. Patience is the power that rises through the earth into us and threads like silver string keeping everything together, connected.


Belief: the power to believe is perhaps the greatest superpower we have. Whether you subscribe to the doctrines of religion, faith or spiritual healings, we all believe in something that is greater than who we are. Even being someone who does not subscribe to traditional beliefs, we wholeheartedly throw ourselves into a story that becomes the foundation to our life. For those who do believe in the Almighty, the Angels or the Universe, the power of that belief underwrites all that exists in our life, offering us everything we could possibly need and we believe that it is enough.


For me I continue to seek the power to be humble. I look to find a way to quieten the voices in my mind. To silence the beating drum of my ego. I have good intentions, but on some days my good intentions fail to be enough. So in my every day I seek the power to always be humble and to let the softness of my spirit and the whisperings of my heart guide all my decisions. Be what defines the path that I choose and shape the way that I connect with others.

We each already hold so many superpowers. Look within and tell me, what is your greatest superpower? And what superpower do you seek the most? Or if you like, what superhero do you want to be?


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  • Beautiful writing as always Josefa. Patience is certainly a power I am trying to work on at the moment with a Toddler who refuses to sleep at night!
    The superpower I seek the most is contentment. While I have flashes of it, where I feel true happiness and peace with life, I long to have the feeling stick around for longer, so I can truly feel and enjoy it.

  • Super post Josefa! I love it. And your superpowers are most admirable. I think I have the superpower of patience. At the moment I am working on the superpowers of forgiveness and trust.

  • Kim | Melbourne Mum

    Loved this post, Josefa! Unlike Sam, I think I *want* the Superpower of Patience as I certainly don’t have it. I think I have the Superpower of Resilience and Self-Belief. Kim x

  • Humility seems the most amazing superpower of all, J. x

  • Pinky Poinker

    My smarty pants answer to this question has always been the ability to eat as much as I want without getting fat, but that’s not very noble is it? As a teacher I suppose patience would be handy 🙂

    • You are hilarious Pinky Pointer. I think you’re on to something there.

  • I totally agree with you on the health angle. If only everyone could stay healthy we would achieve so much more!

  • Wouldn’t that be a wonderful superpower to have Josefa? I think mine is empathy, sometimes too much for my own good I think.

  • I love the way write Josefa. I would love the superpower of patience. A superpower I have been struggling to find for years.

  • I could do with the super power of patience a lot more than I have it. 🙂
    I would love to have the ability to look beyond a person and see their reasoning, so I didn’t judge them. That would be really helpful. I guess love though is not seeing the reason, and still not judging, so maybe I’ll just work on that instead 🙂

  • Kathy

    The power of patience is something I really need and I’m with you on resilience being a really important strength. I admire your quest for the power to be humble – our ego can be hard to tame, but the way you write is plenty of evidence of your humility. I need the super-power of self-belief (almost as much as I need patience!). I have belief in God and the universe, and yet somehow I fail to translate that to a powerful enough belief in my own contribution to universal good. Love your images too – as does a certain four year old I showed them to.

  • Leanne Shea Langdown

    I need more patience. Funnily enough I am quite tolerant … but patience is different. I am always trying to find the balance between patience and persistence. Particularly when it comes to goals …

  • I am trying with the patience and also belief! But you are right in regards to being able to stop sickness, that is something I have wished for in the past. I think being able to put yourself in someone else’s shoes is a big one too!

  • Great post Josefa. Sorry I missed #convocoffee last month. Unscheduled break.

    • Sorry, that posted before I was ready! I would LOVE the superpower of patience. I have never been a patient person, and I’ve discovered some since having kids. But they use it all up. Poor hubby and everyone else in my world get NUFFIN’ from the patience department!

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