Becoming a mum seven years ago there were so many things that I didn’t know. So many days spent flicking through parenting books and online forums trying to find my way. Yet, amongst all that was unknown, there was one thing I was certain of. For as much as I wanted to have a baby.…
Read MoreI have tormented myself over this post for hours. Somehow with each draft I delete I have felt that it is not quite right. It is not quite good enough. My blog is one! I have to stop and pause when I read over that. There is a small part of me that still can’t…
Read MoreThere is a certain magic about dinosaurs that captivates the hearts of children and adults alike. These school holidays Watergardens Town Centre has been taken over with these prehistoric monsters. Scattered throughout the expansive shopping centres, giants from thousands of years ago, roar and gnash at shoppers going by. This article first appeared in Alphabet…
Read MoreThe idea of travelling with young kids sets off alarm bells in any parents mind. Each time we travel with our two young boys I am a ball of sweat with a racing heart before we even leave, rolling over all the possibilities and potential situations that could end in disaster. Our last trip, however,…
Read MoreKeep your hands to yourself. Don’t talk back. Always tell the truth. We live in a society where the rules for children are quite simple. Yet, do parents follow the same rules? I always knew what type of mother I would be. I would be the mother who was firm. I would set boundaries. I would…
Read MoreSometimes you need to get away. For no real reason other than it is good for you. To just let everything go. And remember how good it is to be in each other’s arms and to hold each other’s hand. To sit in the sun. Soak in the warmth and feel the breeze tug away…
Read MoreThe alarm clock sits on her bedside table. A wedding gift from ten years ago now. The bright green digital numbers only serve to mock her. 5.45am. She can hear the footsteps coming down the hall. “Mummy it is morning.” Her mind starts to tick. Must check the rabbit. Must sort out the lunches. Must…
Read MoreI had the dream wedding. The fairytale. The extravagance. For two years I consumed my time, my mind and my every essence with preparing for the “big day”. I had a team of supporters. I needed a team. My family. My in-laws. My cousins. The excitement was contagious. The momentum unavoidable. I was young and I…
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